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How to Develop the Leadership Qualities

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Daria Zaitseva

Being a leader today is prestigious; it allows you to move quickly up the career ladder and succeed in life. The “leadership” for many people is an abstract concept, so is not always clear where to develop it. Let’s consider everything in order.

Who is the leader?

A leader is a person who goes ahead, leading the people. He has authority in his environment, and his decisions are heard. It differs him from the idol or the manager, wherein the first case works a surrounding worshiped talent, and in the second – do the job following the manager. The leader is a pacesetter who leads the others, speaking to them with examples. At the same time, a good manager is often the leader, but these concepts should not be confused.

What is required of a leader

Leader’s success depends on three factors:
– The objective achievements;
– The ability to teach;
– Inspiring other people.

If something is missing from the shortlist, there will be problems with the leadership. For example, able to “splurge” and inspire others poser idea can lead others only as long as others do not understand what went somewhere not there. A brilliant scholar, able to prove his discovery, but not able to gather like-minded people, will be working alone, but not at the head of the companions of the team. Hard-working professional who has earned the sympathy of others, will not be a leader as long as he will not start to make decisions that others will obey.

How to become a leader

First, you need to understand how to need really to get it, because the leadership is a particular responsibility, and the leader will be the first who will be responsible for the mistakes of the whole group. If you are not frightened, you should determine which of the three factors is missing at the moment and work on it. It is important to be objective, because “leadership” in the resume indicates every second, but in practice very few people can boast of.

But the main thing is the ability to make the right decisions quickly because they allow gaining prestige. The leader is the one who first takes the decision that is ready to fulfill the rest. When the team several times submitted to the ideas of one person, that person becomes a leader, regardless of his formal position in the group.

What to do next

Leadership in itself does not give any managerial positions or brilliant victories. Hi is only enough household level to organize reunions or work union. To gain authority pays dividends, – it is necessary to develop management skills that will lead those people who are willing to comply. However, the informal leaders are often content with the role of “gray cardinal”, when they are expected to make responsible decisions, while responsible for their official leader.

I was born to be a leader

There should also be mentioned about the so-called “natural leaders.” Some people are easier to take responsibility and make decisions; they are easier to become leaders, but their qualities are not innate. These features need to cultivate, since taking responsibility for themselves and their personal actions. If people see that person as soon as possible to blame their mistakes of others, it will not be a leader, because his decisions will be afraid to perform. He who was ready to answer for all, and even able to prove that the decision was made correctly, achieve absolute authority.

About the power of enthusiasm

Leaders are different, and their quality has always walked and will walk disputes. But one thing is clear: everything that makes a leader is enthusiastic. Maybe even the goal itself is a dull and boring process, but the result of awareness and a sense of control over own life – that’s what gives enthusiasm and internal fuse!

Also, the leader builds his life as he wants, he usually enjoys what he does. Otherwise, what for all these?

In everyday life, to live with enthusiasm (so enjoy your family life, work, development, recreation, etc.) And sincere passion for living, for changing something, for thinking and always doing visible to others, even if your house is not painted in bright colors, and you daily do not appear in public.

Therefore, if you do not, think, maybe something should change? What can you do to “light up” and get carried away by the relationship with a particular person, to love a job or find a new favorite one? Thus, I wish you all the inspiration and inexhaustible internal reserves!

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Read This When You’re Tired of Everything

We found an article which presents an unusual perspective for dealing with tiredness. We recommend that you take a deep breath, read it — and follow its advice.

 

’I know what it’s like to feel tired — and not just in the physical sense.

The world that we live in is an exhausting place to be. It is wearing. It is thankless. It is endlessly trying and scarcely rewarding. You’re tired simply because you live in it. You’re tired of loving too much, caring too much, giving too much to a world that never gives anything back. You are tired of investing in indefinite outcomes. You’re tired of uncertainties. Tired of grey.

I know you haven’t always been this worn out — that there was a time when you were hopeful and pure. When your optimism outweighed your cynicism and you had an infinite amount in you to give. I know you have been chipped away and worn down piece by piece — a broken heart here and an un-kept promise there. I know the world hasn’t always been kind throughout the games you’ve played and that you’ve lost more times than you have ever won. I know you’re feeling uninspired to try again. I know.

Because the truth is, we’re all tired. Every single one of us. By a certain age, we are all nothing more than an army of broken hearts and aching souls, desperately searching for fulfillment. We want more but we’re too tired to ask for it. We’re sick of where we are but we are too scared to begin again. We need to take risks but we’re afraid to watch it all come crashing down around us. After all, we’re not sure how many times we will be able to start over.

We all think we’re alone in our exhaustion. But the truth is we’re tired of each other — tired of the games we play and the lies we tell and the uncertainties we present to each other. We don’t want to play the villain but we don’t want to play the fool either. So our guards go up. Our defences rile. And we take on the role that we loathe to see played because we’re not sure what choice we have left.

I know how impossible it can feel to go on trying and giving and becoming when you are exhausted straight through to the soul. I know that the cheerful ideals you were once promised now seem tired and hopeless. But here’s what I beg if you’re this close to giving up: give it one more try, with feeling. I know you’re tired of your attempts. I know that you’re at your wit’s end. But the truth about that second wind of passion is that you’re never going to realize you have it if you do not keep on running past your first.

We’re all more resilient than we think, and that’s an indisputable truth. There is always more love that we are capable of giving, more hope that we are capable of having, more passion that we’re capable of unleashing and flooding out into the world. We just don’t walk far enough down our own roads to reach the point where we’re seeing those actions pay off. We want immediate results and when we see none, we give up. We let the exhaustion stop us. We grow frustrated with the lack of feedback and we assume that means we have to throw the entire attempt right out the window.

Because here’s something we all loathe to admit — none of us are inspired every day. We all get exhausted. We all get discouraged. And we’re allowed to work on through those feelings. Just because you’re beaten down and worn out and sick of the life that you’re living doesn’t mean you’re not making a change. Every person you have ever admired has had times where they felt utterly defeated in the pursuit of their dreams. But that didn’t prevent them from reaching them. You’re allowed to stumble slowly towards your biggest transformations. It doesn’t always have to be a blazing, flagrant affair.

Some parts of life happen quietly. They happen slowly. They happen because of the small, careful choices that we make everyday, that turn us into better versions of ourselves. We have to allow ourselves the time to let those alterations happen. To watch them evolve. To not grow hopelessly frustrated in the in-between.

When you’re tired, go slowly. Go quietly. Go timidly. But do not stop. You are tired for all the right reasons. You are tired because you’re supposed to be. You’re tired because you’re making a change. You are exhausted for all the right reasons and it’s only an indication to go on. You are tired because you’re growing. And someday that growth will give way to the exact rejuvenation that you need.’

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The Limits of Freedom. Psychological Dependence on the Opinions of People

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Daria Zaitseva

All the people are part of society. Therefore, choosing one or another way of behavior, one should be prepared to the fact that society can praise his actions or, on the contrary, to express their disapproval. Different degrees of psychological dependence on the opinions of others open to everyone the limits of freedom. How far should you listen to other people’s judgment wanting to succeed in life?

“Child” Type of Behavior

There are people, for whom the approval or disapproval expressed by the outside observers, is a litmus test that determines the correctness or fallacy of their actions. Focusing solely on the opinions of others, they build their strategy. For the sake of illusory love and mythical respect, they are willing to compromise even the best interests and needs. These “children” are very easy to manipulate. They are willing to fulfill any requirement if you notice that a refusal would cause general discontent. The chance to stay “without candy” gives them a greater fear than the betrayal of own principles.

The main problem of people with a similar warehouse person – the large number of those who “puts the assessment.” Pleasing everyone is impossible. In any case, someone will be unhappy. This fact causes the “child” to panic often and creates considerable difficulty in making any important decisions. Formation of values based on signals received from the outside world leads to personal instability. Accordingly, people attached to the opinions of others are difficult to rely on, but it does not fit the image of a strong personality. Therefore, among those who have achieved in this life at least some height, this type of behavior does not meet virtually.

Internal measurements

A successful person comes only as he considers it necessary. Only the own mind is important for him. He achieves it that is at odds with his conscience. The main rule which such a person is guided going to do something is an inner sense of the right action. It helps him to avoid the feeling of shame for actions and thus maintain the indoor comfort. Others approval is perceived by that who has achieved success, only as a pleasant, but an optional bonus. A censure expressed by one of the observers does not play any role for him. After all, people do not know the motives of his actions, and therefore, they have no right to evaluate them. The person having in consciousness a resistant image of that ideal which he shall be during the life will never arrive poorly only to please somebody. Internal barriers reliably protect him from stains on the conscience, and at the same time on the reputation. They work for him as the key to preserving respect for himself, plays a much more important role than the praise of others.

Lack of psychological dependence on external evaluations can be considered as a guarantee that the person has a strong character. Such people tend to be reliable. Any relationship with them, personal or professional, you can build not being afraid of a dirty trick. Successful people will not stoop to meanness and treachery because such behavior is just unacceptable at the inner level. The primary and the only measure of correct behavior for a successful person is the internal approval of own conduct. Fear of losing respect for own personality and the potential of remorse can keep a human from certain actions. But the fear of being mocked, condemned, misunderstood by others are completely insignificant for him. All these options indicate the presence of strong convictions and strength of character.
I wish all the people to be wise and feel the confidence in own decisions.

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How to Achieve Own Goals? You Can Do It!

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Daria Zaitseva

Each person is individual – we have differed characters, beliefs, opportunities. Someone has abilities to speaking, someone – to a writing of poetry, and the others are singing. So everyone has skills in some particular sphere. However, actually, at high desire, it is possible to change not only character and beliefs but also to increase the opportunities. Achievement of goals will raise a self-assessment, will make the world more colorful, and you – more confidence.

How to make it?

Quite often people expect any improvements in life – it can dream to meet the second half, to become independent, prosperous or more cleverly. Anyway, we almost don’t spend any efforts for the achievement of the dream and it remains far dream.

What is Necessary for the Achievement of the Purposes?

The passionate and vigorous desire which becomes that power source forcing to move forward. This desire burns with a bright flame in the soul, inducing to try again and again even if it turns out not at once; the first pancake is always a lump. Strong personalities who have become in a history as great people, first of all, wished the achievement of their purposes with all heart — and over time they reached it.

A Little Sample

If someone didn’t know, Henry Ford, the owner of the plants producing cars, has gone bankrupt twice before his business has gone up. Nevertheless, he didn’t give up and continued the business, sincerely wishing and believing in his success. Henry Ford’s achievement is an example for many people, already desperate, but hotly wanting the execution of the dream.

What to Begin with?

So, it is important to start with the simplest – from the record of the desires (briefly and laconically) which smoothly pass into the purposes. However as far as there would desire not strong enough, for its embodiment in life, it is necessary to work hard. Write down what steps you are going to take for the achievement of goals, also following short style. Be adjusted so that nobody could overpersuade you or prevent you. Be resolute and don’t listen to silly councils or criticism – go towards the aim and even possible first failure won’t stop you.

Don’t think of barriers. Hang up a piece of paper with your notes on a foreground and try to read it as often as possible – especially in the morning and the evening. Let your brain remember words, and subconsciousness is adjusted on the achievement of the purpose. Let your desire inflame with the increasing force of a measure repetition of records. Over time, you will feel how these words give you inspiration and forces on the actions which are already considered and assured. You can build your life, and the achievement of goals will install determination and commitment to you, will force to believe in yourself and own opportunities. The future in your hands.

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